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NOTJADE: my whole thing right now is learning about the complicated stuff!
NOTJADE: i want to know all about it
YARD JADE: you have no idea how nice that is to hear
YARD JADE: its not like these two want to hear anything i say
YARD JADE: grrrr sorry >_<
YARD JADE: i promise im not normally like this
NOTJADE: its ok!!
NOTJADE: i wont tell anyone
YARD JADE: <3
YARD JADE: ok um
YARD JADE: so you know how memories here are sort of like impressions of an experience and less a literal memory?
YARD JADE: all the other jades can mold theirs around regrets and dreams and whatever else
YARD JADE: because of their own internal interpretations
YARD JADE: i think it sounds crazy when said out loud, but thats the reason all of us are so hard on ourselves
YARD JADE: we ARE the memory, it is us!
NOTJADE: :O
NOTJADE: that makes sense... i think
YARD JADE: really?
NOTJADE: no sorry :P
NOTJADE: keep going!
YARD JADE: heres an example
YARD JADE: dream jades john dies right before they meet officially but her internal desire is to hang out with him
YARD JADE: so she chooses to play with him instead of relive the actual events that happened
YARD JADE: in her experience, that would be the way it should have gone
YARD JADE: even if she knows that is not how it works out
NOTJADE: ohhh
NOTJADE: i see :(
NOTJADE: wait...
NOTJADE: so why do you choose to keep this argument in your memory-experience?
YARD JADE: thats the complicated part
YARD JADE: maybe its because i just know this part has to happen?
YARD JADE: or maybe it makes me so mad that i cant let it go
YARD JADE: i dont know ugh
NOTJADE: :((( thats so sad!!
NOTJADE: its not even your fault that john and davesprite are being inconsiderate jerks!
NOTJADE: all this time i have been encountering other jades who keep putting themselves first over important situations, but this time i really do think you need to do that
NOTJADE: its really messed up to keep going through something negative that you have nothing to do with :(
YARD JADE: but it does have to do with me
YARD JADE: davesprite broke my heart
YARD JADE: and then john blew a fuse over being stuck on this ship with us :(
YARD JADE: i just cant stop thinking about it all
YARD JADE: it is so lonely again even if i have most of my best friends with me
YARD JADE: * sniffle *
NOTJADE: oh no! dont cry!
NOTJADE: i didnt mean to make you more upset :O
NOTJADE: i just really dont understand why you think this situation is how it has to be
NOTJADE: its probably time to let it go!
NOTJADE: it cant be healthy to just keep going through this over and over :(